Lifestyle tips

I'm curious about what level of mobility people like to keep or achieve as they gain. I know there are gainers and feedees that dream of gaining to immobility and being looked after by a feeder, but not all of us do. In fact, many of us gain on our own and need to rely on maintaining a certain level of mobility to be able to look after ourselves properly.

Personally, keeping my mobility as I gain is important. I love growing softer and squishier, but I also value being able to put on socks if my feet are a bit cold, and being able to spend a few hours comfortably standing and moving around the kitchen while I cook a feast.

What about everyone else? Are you someone that can't wait to need someone to care for you because even walking from the couch to the bathroom is a challenge? Someone that loves being fat but also likes going for hikes? Maybe someone that sits somewhere in between? And what do you do to help you get to or maintain your desired mobility level?

As for feeders, do you like lazy/helpless feedees? Or is an active feedee more appealing to you?

Finding and planning for assisted mobility options makes sense given your weight goals. I hope it's something you'll be able to comfortably transition to as your gaining progresses. 🙂

As the proud feeder of an increasingly immobile lady, my feelings have evolved. From thinking of immobility as a tragic extreme, to something adorable I love.

When we started dating, she was already "thick", "big boned." I fantasized about making her helplessly obese, but thought it was unrealistic, and probably sad and tragic in real life.

But I told her that I liked how big she was, but wouldn't mind her getting bigger. She took that as a cue to just let go, and started swelling up. Getting so heavy and huge she started needing help with things, her lifestyle changing based around her own obesity.

At first I thought maybe things had gone too far, that I should kindly and subtly convince her to lose weight. But her health keeps being good, she's so happy and comfortable, she knows I want to fatten her up so there's no manipulation, and I found I really enjoy helping her out when she's too fat to do things on her own.

It's so cute when she asks me for help with things, and she laughs when she gets stuck in the bathtub or needs a couple tries getting out of bed.

Personally as a Feeder, I choose the inbetween of the two. I prefer a lazy/helpless feedee in the house but a mobile feedee outside. One that is on the edge of useing a scooter to get around for outside. Where they more than waddle than walk.

Lots of people loving the idea of either being huge or having a huge partner that's teetering on the edge of immobility but still able to move around mostly on their own or with some manageable assistance.

Are you one of those people?

No, like I said in my original post, staying mobile and maintaining my independance is pretty important to me. I love being fat, but I also like being fully capable of looking after myself.

That level of mobility is a great theory, but in practice I think it is not a very stable point. One bad step that twists an ankle, a prolonged illness leaving you in bed for a while, fat related health issues, or just getting a bit older and a bit weaker, basically when you are so close to the edge, it may not take much to push you to a degree of immobility that you may not like and that is hard to come back from.

But yah, just barely hanging on is hot af!

I'd like to be as mobile, flexible and strong as possible while being fat enough that I'm soft and flabby at every part.

Right now to achieve that I go on daily 5km walks and hit the gym twice a week to weight lift. I make sure to hit leg muscles at the end of every workout, even if the focus was a different muscle group. I also occasionally will go up and down 20 flights of stairs so that I can easily mount stairs without getting out of breath (though kinda been slacking on this recently).

I'm 5ft 7 and 205lbs, I can definitely notice that I'm heavier when I move around and it's more difficult to move around than it used to be even with all my efforts. I also experience mild knee pains that I'm hoping to overcome through muscle building.

I would like to pass on my experience of being a FA and my relationship with my partner. My partner is older than me and the best way to describe her is she is a granny. When i met her she was probably around 300 + pounds and in her mid 30's. Big bellied, agile, she could also walk long distances. She would dance and party. Her weight was relatively stable maybe gaining a few pounds a year. She entered her 40's she still had good mobbilty but towards her late 40's she was starting to slow down, also developing a few aches and pains. She entered her 50:s then things started to change. Her knees were the 1st thing that started causing discomfort her hips were next then her lower back. She was probably 350 pounds. She stopped driving a manual transmission and went to automatic. The 1st sign of loss of mobility was she needed a crutch to walk. Which became 2 crutches. In her mid to late 50's standing or walking any distance was near impossible and she was registered disabled. She now had a mobility scooter to get about on when going out. She could no longer get up the stairs of the house, so a chair lift was installed. Also she could not stand to shower so a wet room was built where she can sit to shower. Into her 60's initially she kept enough mobility to keep her independence.
But that is when things started to change significantly. She was now around 400 pounds. Her legs became painful her hips hurt. Also lower back pain. She was 5 foot 5 and a half inches. Today she is a very different woman. The changing point was she had a fall. Fortunately nothing was broken. But it altered her physically and mentally. She was in hospital but came home a very different woman. She has lost about 3 inches in height her shoulders are rounded and she stands with a stoop. She finds using her mobility scooter uncomfortable and has just gone into her wheelchair. Which is used around the home and garden. Or trips out. When she does stand and needs to move she uses a walker. The fall a small moment in time has had a huge impact on her. She is now a very large elderly woman, with limited mobility. We have discussed mobility for many years. We both knew she would eventually become bed bound. Which we are currently planning for. But there are a few places and things she wants to do before becoming immobile. In short if anyone is on the larger side in my experience you cannot predict the outcome the only thing you can do is be aware of the risks associated with living large. As my lady recently put it ...
I can't complain,
I did it too myself.
I like being fat.
She is now looking forward to the next phase of her life.